Sharon Melnick - peronsal development exert - get out of your own way
 
September 2007

 

In this Issue:
  • From Comfort Zone to Confidence Zone
  • What Kind of Boss Are You -- To Yourself?
  • In the NY Area?

  • What Kind of Boss Are You -- To Yourself?

    Take a moment to remind yourself that in order to be good at being anyone else's boss (or consultant, or colleague, or relationship partner) you must be an effective boss to yourself.

    You may have had complaints about other people who have served as your boss, but what kind of boss are you to yourself? Would you describe yourself as effective?

    Just to start the inquiry:

    1. Do you have a clear idea of the outcome you want yourself to deliver each day/each moment?

    2. Do you give clear directives to yourself through your self talk?

    3. Do you talk to yourself with a tone that makes you motivated and appreciated rather than feel criticized and drained?

    If you don't act each day with this kind of intentionality, this kind of clarity, and this kind of self motivation, here's a 2-part video (approx 4 min.) that will give you a new way of thinking about how to be an effective boss to yourself.

    (That's right, for those of you who guessed it, here's a 'back to basics' refresher on the idea that your thoughts are 'Captain's Orders". Be the Captain!)

    P.S. If you want to know more (and I mean much much more!) about how to be an effective boss to yourself, how to make each of your 60,000 thoughts a day work for you not against you, and how to have the success you seek at your "Horizon Point", then stay tuned for an important announcement in my next newsletter. Soon, I"ll be offering continuous, usable, step by step instructions in download form to help you move beyond all the ways you don't even know you are getting in your own way! Current clients and newsletter subscribers will get priority registration. Click here to send an e-mail to get on the the pre-notification list.


    In the NY Area?

    If you are in the NY metro area, you and your friends can attend Sharon's free preview workshop on September 10th. Go to www.sharonmelnick.com/ workshopregistration.htm for details.

    Not in New York? You can hear Sharon as part of the Passionate Growth teleseminar series for women. Click here for more information.


    From Comfort Zone to Confidence Zone

    A course to fast track you beyond insecurities and behaviors that hold you back from maximum success and fulfillment in your life-- for a fraction of Sharon's regular consulting fees.

    Starts Sept 17th for 6 weeks in New York City, click here to register.

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